Tinder Answers (2) – What is the sense of Life and Love?
25/03/2018 | Ben
Another round of Tinder answers. What questions you ask girls on Tinder? Well, one of “techniques” is to write my 2 questions. They mostly have the purpose to go into deeper conversations. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. But if we are honest to each other… Who don’t like a good conversation?!
You probably heard the podcast episode already if not I will link below. So my two favourite questions are “What is the sense of life” and “what is love”…. Sometimes I get funny answers, sometimes they are very short and shallow, but you barely hear the same thing twice. Spme questions I already posted in the first Tinder Answers blog. Feel free to check it out.
After a while you also can kind of categories people. I mean I don’t ask them to answer the question to put them into a box right after, but it gives me a feeling of how much they think about those things. How much they are interested in the topic or how much effort they put into answering these questions. You all know that time is valuable and we tend to limit our energy to things we like.
For each blog I want to share 8 of this answers. Some I will comment a bit more, some I leave it blank for you to interprete. So, lets stop talking and see the first answers:
1. Did she thought that throw?
Not easy to analyse. Did you wrote both answer? Do you realize something? Maybe it is me, but something doesn’t fit. Still a interesting answers.
2. Do you remember her? *Insider*
Never heard about Limitations of I talk about the sense of life. Also rare to find workaholics these days. What you think? Is hard working a important part of your life?
3. She can’t decide, but in progress
I thought there is coming more after “it is deep”. I may never said that before… There is no right or wrong. It is maybe not even possible to find a common definition. Still, some people try hard to find a general definition. These questions are always subjective.
4. Short and straight
Sounds like she knows what she wants. I guess Travel, Food and Family are the things a lot of people desire. Sometimes I speculated about the order. Maybe during life the order change. Having nice food as a Teenager, going Traveling as a grown up and than get into the Family life.
5. I hope she never complains about a guy, who come quickly
This One-Word-Girls are annoying. For me a clear sign of getting to many matches. Doesn’t take time at all for a person, but thats 21th century, right? If you hear that questions – would you shout out a one-word-answer? I bet not.
6. Prepare for god!
You will find all kinds of people in Tinder. Religious as well. I could tell you funny stories about some girls in Islamic countries, but in central america you find some pretty hard stuff as well. I do think everyone has its own mission, but when god comes in. I am out =)
7. That was pretty good for a not speaking english!
Here we go – Find yourself! That could be one of the best slogans for backpacking tour companies. Just wondering now that nobody really using it?! People overvalue love… That was fascinating. Why? Didn’t we sometimes tell ourselves not to take us so serious? Why putting love on a podest? Let it be..
8. If all cartoons would be so smart
The chance may be not high, but some guys still like to match with cartoons in Tinder. Yes, not just guys have fun profiles or troll around. You never know what is behind. Sometimes a catfish and sometimes you catch the lucky loser ticket.