Tinder Answers (4) – What is the meaning of Life and Love?
26/05/2019 | Ben
Another round of Tinder answers. I will mix it with some other sources. What questions do you ask girls on Online Dating apps? Well, one of my “techniques” is to write my 2 questions. They mostly have the purpose to go into deeper conversations. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. But if we are honest with each other… Who doesn’t like a good conversation?!
You probably heard the podcast episode already if not I will link below. So my two favorite questions are “What is the sense of life” and “what is love”…. Sometimes I get funny answers, sometimes they are very short and shallow, but you barely hear the same thing twice.
After a while, you also can kind of categories of people. I mean I don’t ask them to answer the question to put them into a box right after, but it gives me a feeling of how much they think about those things. How much they are interested in the topic or how much effort they put into answering these questions. You all know that time is valuable and we tend to limit our energy to things we like. Especially if you on an app like tinder and most of your time is wasted anyway.
For each blog, I want to share 8-11 of these answers. Some I will comment a bit more, some I leave it blank for you to interpret. So, let’s stop talking and see the first answers:
1. She does everything for you
Really inspiring and probably one of the girls, who are doing everything for others. I just feel to thank her for being like that. Deep in my heart, I am on her side, but so often in daily life, I don’t act like that.
2. It is all up to you
Feeling lucky with so many nice responses recently. Who said girls in Latin America are not smart or thoughtful. Totally agree with the meaning of life. Things change… At the end, it is up to you and hopefully, you are happy with your choice. Love – people give what they learn or can is an interesting statement. What do you think?
2. Romantic and old fashioned
I always doubt people saying they are living in the present and every second as it would be the last. Lets be honest – we don’t! Though, like her statement about letting others just be themselves… Reflecting your love to someone else to improve yourself is a very important point. Just google Fish-Love.
3. Why not combine the meaning of life and love
Yep… It is a short answer. Always wonder if people also act to what they say. Do you?
4. She didn’t saw it coming
Sometimes I swap quickly to WhatsApp from a Dating App. Just brings you to a much personal environment. Anyway… She didn’t see that coming. I like her honest response to the meaning of life. That’s why I do that shit! Very funny answer to love. It is not serious of course, but at least a proper joke.
5. Just ruin my Screenshot!
Some people are just destroying it! I had a couple of them, but of course, I can’t tell them before that I would like to make a screenshot and publish it. Don’t forget, I ask them afterward if I can publish. Here we go again with act accordingly to what you believing in.
6. Love is happiness and pain
Very short again, but somehow I am not upset with that for the moment. Still got some interesting points here. Letting out the kinky me – so what do you mean with love is happiness and pain =)
7. Isn’t it easy?
Don’t ask me stupid questions – that’s easy, but wait maybe not. It was kind of funny because she really really wants to know my answers as well. I mentioned it before. Most people don’t even ask back because they are deeply falling fall the questions and think about it. Still not sure about the response to love. Is it a tool to find happiness? What do you think?
8. Let me get this structured
9. Please don’t ask
She seemed to be a nice person, but just don’t come up with complicated questions. I challange you! Ask your partner this two questions. The answers may surprise you.
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Which answer do you like the most? Which one relates to your personal answer and why? Write me a message. You didn’t get enough? Find a list of the past collections below. Also, feel free to write an article if you feel for it. I don’t have super high standard and you can be totally free on the topic you choose. Just should touch something around philosophy, psychology or Sex. Let us be authentic. Let us be real!