Tinder Answers (5) – What is the meaning of Life and Love?
07/07/2019 | Ben
Another round of Tinder answers. I will mix it with some other sources. What questions do you ask girls on Online Dating apps? Well, one of my “techniques” is to write my 2 questions. They mostly have the purpose to go into deeper conversations. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. But if we are honest with each other… Who doesn’t like a good conversation?!
You probably heard the podcast episode already if not I will link below. So my two favorite questions are “What is the sense of life” and “what is love”…. Sometimes I get funny answers, sometimes they are very short and shallow, but you barely hear the same thing twice.
After a while, you also can kind of categories of people. I mean I don’t ask them to answer the question to put them into a box right after, but it gives me a feeling of how much they think about those things. How much they are interested in the topic or how much effort they put into answering these questions. You all know that time is valuable and we tend to limit our energy to things we like. Especially if you on an app like tinder and most of your time is wasted anyway.
For each blog, I want to share 8-11 of these answers. Some I will comment a bit more, some I leave it blank for you to interpret. So, let’s stop talking and see the first answers:
1. What is is the difference between meaning and sense of life?
Is it bad English to say sense of life? Love is to be happy just knowing someone else exists? Puhhh… Not judging here but doubting.
2. I tell you she was HOT!
Sometimes you see such hot girls and I wonder if I would kill it with my 2 questions, but I still go for it. Anyway. I think she tried hard for the first one and let it go for love. By the way: Yes! I do have a picture in my online dating app, where you can see my naked bum. It is a piece of art =)
3. No plan, but family!
Mh… I would say it is important for her that she is in control – somehow? Family in some cultures is always number one. Let me say that culture can be so fascinating. Not be able to explain things straight away, but excepting things and traditions. Does it make sense? I mean the overall picture. Still doesn’t make sense – just saying.
4. STOP! I am monogamous!
I did wrote in my profile that I am ethical non-monogamous. Just don’t get offended. Well, at least she responded with more than 3 words. Let’s move on.
5. What do you mean?
Someone needs to explain to me what “up in the emotional tone scare with joy…” means.
6. I don’t wait long! Maybe lol
7. That took a while
She was fully up and running and probably fall in sleep. No worries. Nothing you missed. Didn’t understand the first answer anyway.
8. You girl, just need more classes!
No judgment here, but I do think she was just hot – that’s it. Sometimes it is a pity. I maybe match with someone super attractive. You maybe even meet someone in real life… But yes… Well… You know… Talking to those people… You just can’t have it all! I mean, not knowing and just being honest is one thing, but saying that these questions are boring? I don’t know. You want me to ask when you lost your virginity or if you prefer a dildo or vibrator?
9. It is a test, right?
Don’t worry sweetie! It is not a test. Still someone needs to bring me to the level of metaphysics for the meaning of life. Well, maybe also how love is a result of a feeling but overall. Yes, I guess you pass the exam.
10. Just kidding
At least you come up with something after the joke. Appreciated! So, how hard you work for love?
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Which answer do you like the most? Which one relates to your personal answer and why? Write me a message. You didn’t get enough? Find a list of the past collections below. Also, feel free to write an article if you feel for it. I don’t have super high standard and you can be totally free on the topic you choose. Just should touch something around philosophy, psychology or Sex. Let us be authentic. Let us be real!