Tinder Answers (8) – What is the meaning of Life and Love?

01/02/2022 | Ben

Another round of Tinder answers. I will mix it with some other sources. What questions do you ask girls on Online Dating apps? Well, one of my “techniques” is to write my 2 questions. They mostly have the purpose to go into deeper conversations. Sometimes it works, sometimes not. But if we are honest with each other… Who doesn’t like a good conversation?!

You probably heard the podcast episode already if not I will link below. So my two favorite questions are “What is the sense of life” and “what is love”…. Sometimes I get funny answers, sometimes they are very short and shallow, but you barely hear the same thing twice.

After a while, you also can kind of categories of people. I mean I don’t ask them to answer the question to put them into a box right after, but it gives me a feeling of how much they think about those things. How much they are interested in the topic or how much effort they put into answering these questions. You all know that time is valuable and we tend to limit our energy to things we like. Especially if you are on an app like tinder and most of your time is wasted anyway.

For each blog, I want to share 8-11 of these answers. Some I will comment a bit more, some I leave it blank for you to interpret. So, let’s stop talking and see the first answers:

1. Someone who appreciate some thoughts

Always pleasant if someone appreciates some different questions. I wonder what happened to Holly. Never meet her in real life.

2. Let me be Happy =)

3. That was quick

Quick answer. Kept it brief but forget to follow up. Lost the opportunity to talk about it.

4. I am a Nerd – 42 is the answer

Well, that’s how I imagine the answer to everything from a nerd – 42. She probably expected a lot more.

5. Wait, let me try

Almost got away with nothing. Appreciate she took the time to still find a proper answer to the second question.

6. When experience can talk

You know from a Podcast that I like older women. That is a good example. Witty, fresh, funny but still with a good lesson. Love the idea of rolling over responsibility to someone else. I guess we all want to know what happened to her.

7. I am too old for that shit

8. Lets get to the point

9. What is your condition to love?

Unconditional love is always an interesting topic. I would challenge every couple to talk about their conditions. Do we decline or ignore them? I kind of agree that unconditional love is a common base in relationships.

10. Whatever makes you happy

Not sure if I got the answer to love later. But whatever makes you happy is a nice way to sum it up.

11. Sorry, I was fucking with you!

Yo, shit. Was that a test? I love how she was ending the questionnaire. But that’s how it often works. Tinder, Bumble, Okcupid are not the best ways to discuss these topics. Its a bit entertainment and sometimes a opportunity to meet people but not more.

12. WTF – Why you are asking?

Well, she got a point. Are we telling ourselves some lies to get over it and just do what we do? Who cares anyway? It is so interesting if social issues could talk.

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Which answer do you like the most? Which one relates to your personal answer and why? Write me a message. You didn’t get enough? Find a list of the past collections below. Also, feel free to write an article if you feel for it. I don’t have super high standard and you can be totally free on the topic you choose. Just should touch something around philosophy, psychology or Sex. Let us be authentic. Let us be real!